Monday, February 15, 2016

Lots of Changes!

Dear Family and Friends,
This last week has been absolutely crazy and I'm super happy I'm able to net. I'll write it out a little different. It's just my journal entries summarized and everything is out of whack. It's about 12 at night. We slept most of the day and I'll explain why the emails so late at night. I have permission.
Monday:
It was P-day, didn't find out till really late I was transferring. I had no idea who my companion would be, just that I was training and that I was moving to Houma 3rd ward.
Tuesday:
Mahe and I stayed up till 2 am packing because we had a super busy day and we had to get his bag down to 50 pounds so he could fly to Vava'u.
Wednesday:
I was picked up at about 9:30 and was in a meeting till around 4. Then things started getting crazy. My new companion is 21 and straight from Tonga. I met him before his mission and jokingly said maybe I'll get to train you! Anyway, didn't think I'd be training this early in my mission. We got driven to our MQ and then realized we had no phone or key. The zones brought our key and let us in but we still had no phone. No one has lived in the MQ for a while and it was pretty obvious. Spiders, cockroaches and mosquitos everywhere. There are barely any windows, no fan, and it's super hot. Oh and no water. That one really got me. I didn't realize that meant to going to the bathroom until my companion made the sad mistake. We shut the door and haven't opened it since.
Thursday:
It's been so nice being the senior companion. I have made sure to do exactly what I'm supposed to and I think my companion really likes me. He's awesome. Despite our difficult living circumstances it's been a blast already being companions. Thursday we met ten new people and there is a lot of work to do over here.
Friday:
Met a guy named Limihai. He was a drug lord on California and lost his leg. He was deported for robbing $285,000 from a safe. He is 70 with some crazy stories.
Saturday:
We got a fan this morning. A really nice one. Then It all went wrong. Our house caved in on us the rain and storm was so bad. Our house was basically a swimming pool. We called and president told us we had 5 minutes to pack and be ready for pick up. This was at 11 PM. He picked us up soon after. We stayed the night at the nicest place ever with A/C and couches and even a washer.
Sunday:
After the nights mishaps we slept in for the first time we were so tired. I was awoken at 7:00 to the sound of the phone ringing and the adrenaline realizing it was president and that I was probably in trouble for sleeping in. He told me to pack my bags and get them under 50 pounds because me and my new comp are going to be emergency transfered to Vava'u and to be ready to go back to church in Houma in an hour. We got ready and went to church. We told the ward we were leaving and spoke for the first and last time at that ward. They were amazing. After we went to the blowholes in our area. We were taking final pictures in a little cove when a huge wave from no where hit me and my companion. We were thrown back up the coast by it and got soaking wet. It was the first bath we've had in a week. (We are allowed in the water to bathe because of lack of water as long as we don't dive and don't go more than 20 feet from the coast) We went back to eat and to our nice house. We took our nice fan from the house and tried to fit it in my bag. We'll see how that goes. We leave in a couple hours and got permission to net because of the transfer. We are on a 8 seat plane I think and will be working in Tu'anuku Vava'u. We have a lake in out area and mountains. I'll try to get pictures and stuff but this may be the last time I net for a couple months. I'll try to email later today if we are able to.
Personal:
Can't even tell you how much better things are. I'm a little nervous to train and stuff but I think it'll be okay and my Tongan is progressing a lot faster. I don't know anyone who's trained a Tongan after only being in Tonga for 4.5 months so I hope I can do a good job.
Companionship:
He's awesome. He only has one eye and is super excited to be out on a mission. I asked why he came out and he said he was scared if he did something wrong in his other eye would get taken away! He loves to workout with me. He jokes around a lot but will work as hard as I can make myself move. It's definitely hard training and we have a lot of awkward moments with me learning a language and a brand new missionary.
Area: (outdated and about Houma)
Area is very different. It's one of the poorest towns in Tonga. My bishop is awesome and always puts the missionaries first. He's very humble and loving. He's been the bishop of this ward for the full 3 years it's been a ward. We don't have many stores, no restaurants and the area is very small compared to Longolongo. I sold my bike to one of the senior couples, kinda sad to see it go but we don't really need it. I buy mainly water which costs around 10 pa'anga a day. ($5 US) Which will start to add up but it seems to be a need at the current moment. Oh, almost forgot, we have the Tongan Blowholes in our area. They're pretty cool and sometimes shoot fish and crabs up on the reef where we can catch them.
That's all for now,
Love, Elder Sikoki
Remind me to tell you about Limihai and my comp and to send pictures. Love you

Transfers

Still here in Longolongo and still have Elder Mahe as a companion. 6 more weeks and maybe that'll change but for now just trying to do my best.
Language:
Things are picking up a lot faster. Words are coming a lot quicker and instead of focusing on about 20 vocabulary words a day I'm up to about 50. I can teach the lessons now and communicate well enough, but it's still obvious I'm from over seas. I really didn't expect language to be so hard. I thought I'd have it when I finished at the MTC, but I thought wrong and actually really do like the Tongan language. There's a lot more body language and faces, (like your eyebrows change what words mean) but it makes it fun.
The Heat:
IT IS HOT. Like I didn't think it could get this hot. There's a rash called prickly heat when you get to hot and me and my companion couldn't sleep last night till about 3 AM we had it so bad!! We both took cold showers and it helped a bit! I think that either our humidity scale is broken or something but it's been at about 80-90% for a while.
Food:
The food was better this week. We got some good meals and a lot of fruit from our neighbors.
Personal:
Just trying to look at the brightside of everything and take it bit by bit. This definitely isn't America.
Love you all,
Elder Sikoki

Tonga Week 18

Personal:
This week was pretty rough. I was sick with chikungunya all week. I think I've had it for two weeks though it just didn't get very bad till about Tuesday. The Doctor made us stay home all week other than about 3 times when we went out to do some Baptismal Interviews. However, plenty of good stuff still happened. The zones came over and one of the Elders that went home left his ukulele in their car. The elder gave it to the zones and the zones gave it to me. By the way we have new zones now and they're pretty cool. I've played it all week and being a much more simple instrument than the violin I have picked it up pretty fast and can play a few Tongan hymns.
Companionship:
One of the Elders out in Sopu forgot to tell us that his interview wasn't going to go through so we rode out there and then we just rode back . Luckily we met one of out investigators on the way out there and we were able to update her phone number. We also got in a pillow fight this last week which I totally won. Apart from that I think he's really liked this week.  I'll admit, I'd do about anything to be companions with Matt.
Tonga:
We didn't get any food for a while because we ran out of credit on our phone and weren't allowed to leave the house. For about three days we survived on crackers and then we got canned beef and Lu on Sunday. It didn't quite go over well and decided to come right back up. The Noble heard I was sick and brought me a big bag of apples and oranges later that night because he knew I liked fruit. It's been super hot this week and I can't wait for this so called Winter that is supposed to come.
Language:
Well, this week actually did have a bit of improvement. My companion decided to sing in English so I decided to sing my best in Tongan, and as you all know I can't sing.  Other than that I memorized a lot of words and also learned I had been swearing on accident every time I taught lesson 4 because teh is a bad word and tē is a good word.
Anyway, love you all and hope you're all safe and sound. Hanz, Izi, Emma and Leif I hope you're all watching out for each other and saving up to come out and see me at the end! Look out for Lyssa!
Ofa Lahi Atu!
-Elder Sikoki
PS: Thanks a lot Martins for the card!! It was fun getting another letter!

Tonga Week 17

I'm pretty excited today is P day. A couple big things happened this week. My violin decided to get in a fight with the humidity, and well, it lost. It came unglued and decided to detach itself from this life. Anyway, I found some superglue and glued it back together, but I can't get the soundpost back in. I think I need a soundpost tool. It sounds pretty awful without it. Kinda an Asian ring to it. I might have to send it out to Matt in Hong Kong if I can't get it fixed!
Next thing that happened was on Thursday we were supposed to go out and stay the night at this little island called Atata. We were going to do service but then the zones decided because me and my comp are from America we probably couldn't work and would get tired and so they found two Tongan elders the day of. 
On Friday we got hit by cyclone Victor. While the APs were driving, a huge wave hit their car and threw them over a cliff. Their car dangled somehow. Anyway, the car was totalled and one Elder broke his ankle and had to go home, the other is just bruised badly. 
Anyway bad news first so now the good news:
-We made brownies yesterday with some investigators,  they turned out delicious even though we had to substitute lots of ingredients.
-One of the sisters got to big for her Tauvala and gave it to me because I was the only one she could find that would fit it. It's really nice and is triple knitted. (The mat that goes around the waste)
-I think we're finally done with our spider infestation,  I was getting pretty sick of jumping every time I turned a corner!
-Got lots of studying in, started reading true to the faith and a lot more of the Tongan bible.
Personal:
I was pretty unhappy this week and felt pretty down. I started writing 5 things I'm thankful for every morning and it was amazing how much better my day went. I found some spring rolls from a falekai (restaurant). They are pretty healthy and I really like them.
Companionship:
I'm not quite sure where we're at. We had a boxing tournament with some really soft gloves our less active family gave us while the hurricane hit. It was pretty fun and I won every match. I know Dad, boxing probably wasn't the best of ideas, but it got us a lot closer to this family and they let us come over a lot more now.
Everything else:
I'm still happy to be out here. The language is picking up really fast now. I'm thankful for the opportunity to be able to serve the Lord and have definitely had many life changing experiences. I love you all tons!
Ofa Atu,
Elder Sikoki